You, my darling Bun and Bean, have packed up your worlds and carried them across miles to places most children only dream of. You have said goodbye to friends and classrooms, to homes that held your laughter, and to places that were once ours. And each time, you have stepped forward, not without fear, but with courage that shines brighter than your uncertainty.

Resilience is not the absence of struggle, but the understanding that struggle and goodness are not mutually exclusive. A moment can hold grief without being emptied of joy; something can be hard without being wholly bad. It is learning to sit with what is real, even when it is uncomfortable, and to return, again and again, to what is still within reach.

There is a specific weight to the small years that is hard to explain unless you are living inside them. It is not the tired of a long day or a busy season—it is the tired that settles into your bones and stays. The kind built from interrupted sleep, sticky hands, endless questions, and the quiet weight of shaping a tiny human into someone who will one day walk out into the world on their own.